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| Living the Life You Always Dreamed |
| Author: Angelica Rose |
| Submitted by: angelica rose |
| Category: United States: Oregon: Portland: Personal/Life Coaching |
| Date Added: September 21, 2009 03:51:53 AM |
| Whatever you stay focused on long enough you create in your life through experiences. Keep the mind focusing on positives, mastering gratitude and the emotions focusing on high self-belief, to continue to create abundance in your life. By putting all your focus on your fears & allowing them to control your life, you'll create lack & non-positive experiences. This doesn’t mean you ignore, resist or act as if the fears don’t exist. Rather you don’t allow them to control your life. You release your fears by processing them & changing the beliefs to more positive loving ones. Affirmations are one of tool to help you in shifting your fears to more positive loving ones. Affirmations are positive words used to shift our belief system in areas where we lack confidence and self-worth. These positive words are put in the present tense & said numerous times to oneself daily. Using positive words is like being an actor or actress, where you are playing a different role in life. You're convincing yourself that you're better than you think you are. Your vocabulary shifts your attitude, which shifts your focus, which shifts your belief. This new vocabulary changes your thinking habits thereby changing your perceptions in life. With this new perception, you create new behaviors & a different reality. Another tool is to literally let go of the mind control where you surrender all your attention from your fear driven thinking to GOD and things you appreciate. Doing this helps to let go of the hold on the non-positive thought patterns and allows you to shift your focus that of which is more productive and positive. Visualization is used to help you release a non-positive pattern and replace it with a more positive approach. Visualization reprograms the mind to create positive thinking and to experience what that would feel like using imagery, thereby feeling self-motivated. With imagery you are pulling out the weeds that hinder you from getting what you want in life and replacing it with a ‘garden’ full of what you choose to experience. When you strive toward resolving your obstacles and fears, you end up taking better care of yourself and thereby enjoy life more. Your attitude says, "Life is precious and I would rather enjoy life than worry about it." By taking responsibility for your life and the obstacles you face, the decisions you make are more productive. Your life is run by what brings you happiness and well being because you know you deserve it. You assert your feelings and thoughts with conviction and compassion on situations and people who affect your happiness and well-being. Your life focus is on balancing your life in all areas. You are enhancing a positive attitude, by trusting your intuition and allow it to be your guide rather than allowing other outside sources to be your guide or tell you what is best for you. You are able to stay focused and present in the moment, aware of your surroundings, embracing and experiencing them to the fullest, rather than future tripping, worrying, and playing victim to your circumstances. Rather than looking at the ½ empty glass or the ½ full glass, you look at life as the whole-full glass.Your mind is conscious and clear of any thoughts of the past; whether they are from unhappy experiences leaving concerns and unhappy feelings or happy experiences leaving more pleasant feelings. The mind is also present and free of any future plans, predictions or figuring out outcomes of the future. There is an acceptance of reality for what is going on in your daily life. Things you are able to change, you do, with more motivation and desire. The things you are unable to change, you surrender to the non-controlling or non-resistance and flow with the life experience. Your relationships with others are also healthier. You have a better understanding of the people you are interacting with in the way they think and feel, thereby having better relationships on any level of involvement. You have more compassion for people's flaws & insecurities and come from an understanding of what is going on, without personalizing or judging. You are able to forgive them for their mistakes and incompetence’s because you will have a greater understanding of their behaviors. You thereby are able to use discernment when selecting people to associate with based on the level of joy you want to experience & the ability to be the whole person you are.When we can truly come from a place of being fully conscious in the moment & take the time to understand each other, we'll lead a more peaceful world. Judgement and wars comes from bias thoughts, preconceived notions and lack of acceptance. Divine love is portrayed as one who chooses to stay present, fully conscious, using active listening, choosing to care & to fully accept others. In all the religions, countries & each other learning to come from a place of genuine interest & acceptance for our differences is coming from a place of divine love.  |
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